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    Thats not good man had similar things happen to me which kinda resulted in me properly starting weightlifting
    only things i can suggest are try to keep busy and positive if you let it takeover you you will basically go under
    use the gym to take out any frustratioms etc
    and fish oil suppliments can help improve your mood boost seretonin etc
    good luck
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    I was wondering where you had been!

    Sorry to hear about all that man. Sounds like it's been a rough couple of weeks. Material things aren't the most important, but at least you have the TV and Xbox. Everyone says it and right now you may not believe it, but it will get better. How quickly is entirely up to you. I'd start focusing in on the things you like to do (gym, design, etc). Use the negative energy to your benefit. I know when I'm ready to give up, I think back to high school and the people that pushed me around. I use that to help propel myself to the next level.

    Like the redcoat said, you can use things like fish oil and b vitamins (niacin specifically) to help get you out of the rut. They surprisingly work wonders. [url]http://www.livestrong.com/article/70023-niacin-benefits-depression/[/url]

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    Well if they were staring at you smiling either a) they thought you were good looking or b) you had a booger hanging out.

    I'm all over GoW3 and MW3! It's gonna be a lazy...er I mean good winter!
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    That's 1 of the bad things about going a tiny gym, no girls apart from the occasional 40 year old!! haha

    It's all about assassins creed 4 and Fifa 12 for me!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Robertrogo View Post
    Well what is now awesome about this situation is that I am now back in the gym and getting on schedule, got my gears of war 3, got a membership to planet fitness and everything so getting my routine back in check but recently I have come to find out that of course my ex-girlfriend of 4 years, 2 days after we broke up possibly starting dating the drug dealer that she was talking to, so of course now that makes me feel like shit and now spewing stuff out saying I am a horrible person, worthless and a bunch of other nonsense (which is of course the result of the drugs or whatever she is on) but honestly in my head I don't understand how women (Not saying all) but certain ones that you give 4 years and everything to, do everything for, spend money on a whim, focus on the future and do EVERYTHING in your power to keep happy and turn into heartless bitches and talk behind your back after everything you have gone through.

    Was doing phenomenal for about 2 weeks then get told this by a few friends that she is now talking shit behind my back which of course bums me out but whatever, going to the gym for 3 hours a day after work and on the weekends, I have dropped 10-15 pounds and back down to 180lbs but put on alot of muscle and my six pack and everything else is coming back which makes me feel great and actually thinking about training for competition, focus on myself and get new tattoos.

    Sorry for rambling guys but I just don't get women and get people that are supposed to "love you" after all that you have been through and all that I have given up for another individual haha..... life is just a rollercoaster of happiness and shit and just gotta make the best out of it


    i know the feeling, but it all works out for the best in the end, if my ex didnt do something similar to me "a few days before our 1 year anniversary, and a week or 2 before christmas then blamed me for not having a job even tho i got her her job and messed up a few interviews because she didnt want me to work at the time, and i was at a good job at the time"
    my own mini rant haha!

    but if she didn't do that, i wouldnt of started the gym, i wouldn't of got jefit, i defiantly wouldn't of stuck to it, wouldn't of improved myself got closer to alot of mates etc etc

    your now free to concentrate on you and what you want, youll have more money, less nagging and feel a whole lot better
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    Quote Originally Posted by Robertrogo View Post
    got a membership to planet fitness
    SOUND THE ALARM!

    but recently I have come to find out that of course my ex-girlfriend of 4 years, 2 days after we broke up possibly starting dating the drug dealer that she was talking to, so of course now that makes me feel like shit and now spewing stuff out saying I am a horrible person, worthless and a bunch of other nonsense (which is of course the result of the drugs or whatever she is on) but honestly in my head I don't understand how women (Not saying all) but certain ones that you give 4 years and everything to, do everything for, spend money on a whim, focus on the future and do EVERYTHING in your power to keep happy and turn into heartless bitches and talk behind your back after everything you have gone through.
    Drugs have a way of bringing out the a$$hole in people no matter how nice they are sober. My guess is that it's jealousy coming out as hate. I know it's hard to do, but let it roll off the shoulders. Otherwise, she'll be accomplishing exactly what she's trying to do; bring you down to her level.

    going to the gym for 3 hours a day after work and on the weekends, I have dropped 10-15 pounds and back down to 180lbs but put on alot of muscle and my six pack and everything else is coming back which makes me feel great and actually thinking about training for competition, focus on myself and get new tattoos.
    Damn! Exactly what you should be doing. Gym is a great outlet and you improving yourself will only make her regret the decision in the long run.

    Sorry for rambling guys but I just don't get women and get people that are supposed to "love you" after all that you have been through and all that I have given up for another individual haha..... life is just a rollercoaster of happiness and shit and just gotta make the best out of it
    It's called venting and it's better that you get it out somewhere. If you figure out women, let me know. I've been with one for about 14 years now and still have no idea how they work!

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    Actually went to the midnight launch of Gears 3 in Cary, NC where EPIC games headquarters is located and met some developers and got my game signed by a few guys, pretty tight

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    Sweet! I finished out single player with a friend of mine. Love it, but man I'm not happy with the ending. Can't wait to try out some multiplayer. MS apparently banned my fkn gamertag! Went to get on tonight and it said I had to change it in accordance with their policy. I've had the name, GigabitPimp, for years. Bastards! Now I need to come up with a unique name.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Robertrogo View Post
    my parents even said to me, what 23 year old comes out of college, gets a full time job, able to afford their own apartment, lease their own car and do something they absolutely love, which for myself is working out, bodybuilding, designing, art, web development and JEFIT, absolutely love this company and providing the best services for you guys which I have been working super overdrive trying to get A LOT of new features for the website and some application stuff out, make us that much better for the community and site.
    Which matters more than anything else really. Can't have everything, but you've got a good start.

    Don't know if you guys have actually noticed but NOW you are able to view other user's profiles and their statistics and change your privacy settings, sort of like facebook in a way to comment on others pages, view logs, and everything so if you go to My-JEFIT and look at your friends on the bottom left hand corner, click on an AVATAR and then you can view a user's profile page, something we forgot to announce but will make an announcement very shortly because we are adding alot more to that feature and for all member profiles
    I noticed that last week I think. Pretty cool!

    Say what Justin?! You have got to be kidding me that they banned your name, dude that is a hilarious name and don't know why they would do that, Microsoft buttholes haha, but yea I finished it on Sunday with my uncle and his buddy from work, played from 4pm till 1 am straight haha but the ending was like WAAAAA?!?! I mean it wasn't bad but I was expecting more, but my lord, the action....the ACTION!!!! So god damn intense, actually every Friday myself, my uncle, my cousin and then about 5 -6 of my uncle's buddies play Execution on Gears 2 and 3 now and played Horde 2.0 which my god, phenomenal haha, so much fun but you gotta whip Microsoft into shape and be like HEY What the hell?!
    Yeah I'm pissed about it. Didn't even tell me. Now I have to get creative since every name is taken. Bastards! I can't even log into the web site without changing my name. Grr.
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    I feel you. Hang in there. If it wasn't for my girlfriend of 3 years splitting, graduating college and getting laid off of my job. I wouldn't be working out at all. I'm happy all the shit happened. Now I can figure out what I actually want to do with my life!

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